Today was not a good day. Dave was supposed to get the new Snow Leopard OS X in the post but, oh woe, it did not arrive so he bundled the boys into the car and headed off to Bristol to buy another copy. This would have been fine only he broke down on the M5 and then caught up in the drama that ensued after a depressed man climbed over the Avonmouth Bridge and threatened to commit suicide.
Dave was one of the last cars to be allowed over the bridge before the police closed it and he was left there for over four hours with the two boys waiting for a rescue truck that didn’t show up because the phone operative he spoke to sent them to the wrong place! At first he thought it was an accident but then scores of emergency services turned up and tried to talk the man down from the bridge. Apparently they were out in force – who knew that one suicidal person warranted several police cars, unmarked police cars, vans, ambulances and whatnot? Also who knew that one suicidal person requires an entire motorway to be brought to a standstill for the best part of a day, regardless of inconvenience caused to other people?
A massive traffic jam started on the M5, which apparently stretched back for 35 miles by the time Dave was finally picked up with the boys and taken to safety. It was horrendous for everyone though – poor Dave was left standing on the side of the road in the blazing sunshine with no food and drink other than a bottle of water with a four year old and an eleven month old for over four hours, tens of thousands of people were stranded and caught up in the traffic jam for over seven hours and ultimately, the man on the bridge let go and fell to his death after the police failed to persuade him to climb back over.
What a horrible day. Particularly for Dave as the memory of his mother’s suicide is still raw and so being confronted with someone planning to jump from a bridge was just appalling for him. He only saw the person on the way over the bridge and then on the way back home (via three recovery truck change overs!) but apparently they had climbed over the bridge and were crouched down really low by one of the lamps, just out of reach so that the police couldn’t just grab them.
It’s funny, I have read a lot of comments this morning from people saying that people who complained about yesterday’s mess should just be grateful that it wasn’t one of their relatives and how would they feel if it was one of their family members who jumped to their death and ‘ooh, just you wait, I hope no one in your family ever gets depression’? Well, a month ago, it WAS my husband’s mother who did much the same thing and he is STILL pissed off about what happened yesterday. The difference being that my mother in law didn’t involve thousands of people when she chose to take her own life. For those who don’t know – she jumped in the early hours of the morning from the top of the Trenchard Street car park in the centre of Bristol. Don’t ever say that we aren’t lacking in compassion and don’t know what it is like because we DO, oh we SO do but you know what, compassion works both ways and I think we are all entitled to feel just as sorry for those caught up in this mess as the person who inadvertantly caused it (let’s face it – he didn’t ask the police to close the motorway did he?) just as we are all entitled to feel upset and angry about how it affected us.
All of the boys are tucked up in bed and fast asleep right now so I am trying to work and watching Twilight. I have watched it about ten times now and it still isn’t improving on me. I don’t know if they have a really bad script or if no one can act for toffee. Possibly both.
I only watch it for the bits with Edward Cullen to be honest. Sad but true. It’s not that I think he is hot or anything; I just find him kind of mesmerising.
Oh, who am I kidding? No one that’s who.




























I have decided that I am too young to wear clothes from Boden. My husband is only twenty seven! He doesn’t need to be living with Boden Mummy quite yet! It’s White Stuff, Warehouse and All Saints all the way for me now.





With cream cheese frosting and additive free sprinkles…


































